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More Than Just Competing

Competition has a way of bringing out the best in us. We get to see how good we are, because we are made to face different persons with different sort of training, in an unfamiliar environment. It helps us to improve, because we really get to see our weak points and it get us challenged.

There are a lot of competitive platforms opening up here and there, but there are a still lot of us who refuses to participate and put ourselves out there. Bringing the question, why?

So in the last weeks, the teachers in my church announced that ten teenagers would be needed to participate in a Bible Quiz competition with teens from other churches and Christian denominations. At the same time representing the church over there. When this was first announced, there were no willing volunteers.

We’re afraid to try.

A lot of persons tells my elder sister to go for modelling competition and pageantry. Still, my sister is reluctant and once I asked her why and she said “What if I spend a lot of efforts and money and then I don’t win?”

A lot of persons are afraid to try for many reasons and mostly because they fear failing. They are afraid of disappointing themselves and others.

So for this quiz competition, a friend of mine told she wasn’t sure she would  participate because the last time she went on something like it, she didn’t come out successful and let her team down. That bringing another reason, ‘the fear of trying again’. 

You make a lot of mistakes and all the time, the most High God forgives you and gives you another chance. So who are you not to give yourself a second chance? Why would you let that single event bring you down?

Don’t think of it as losing but as an improvement exercise, because you’ve learnt something new.

In every competition, some one has to win and others, lose. If this help; don’t think of it as losing but as an improvement exercise, because you’ve learnt something new.

The truth is, even if we don’t admit it, there are competitions every where – in our work, school, business. Some one else is aiming for that position you are working hard to get. You have a classmates who wants to best you.

 What Helps?

A lot of things; amazing self esteem, working hard, preparedness but mostly, having God in your life. When you have God in your life, letting Him be the Lord of your life, you discover things aren’t so hard with Him.

2 Timothy 1:7 says ‘For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind.’

God gives us the boldness to express ourselves and the strength to excel.

So next time when a competitive platform arises be it singing, writing, dancing, quizzes, scholarships, anything at all and you start getting doubts, feeling unsure and uncertain, remember to talk to God, tell Him to take control, then you’ll feel those tangles of fears and insecurities begin to disperse.

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This is it for today. I do hope you liked it. Make sure to tell me what you think about anything and every thing. Also a quick apology, for taking a while to reply some of your comments. Been a bit busy but please still them coming.  

Thanks,

Nessa.

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REAL NEAT BLOG AWARD

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Heeyy guys, I hope you are really doing fine. September is coming to an end. The year is and I’m grateful to God for keeping me through.

You’ve probably guessed from the heading what’s this blog post is about. I want to say a really big thank you to Joharally

Her echoed thoughts

for distinguishing me. She’s a really good writer and an amazing blogger. If you don’t take my word for it. Check out her blog and find out for yourself. You won’t be disappointed.

the rules for this award:

1. Put the award logo on your blog.

2. Thank the people who nominated you, linking to their blogs.

3. Answer the 7 questions asked by the person who nominated you.

4. Nominate any number of bloggers you like, linking to their blogs.

5. Let them know you nominated them (by commenting on their blogs, etc.)

HER QUESTIONS
MY ANSWERS

1) We’re all afraid of something, what’s one of your fears?

I’m afraid of being a disappointment.

2) Which celebrity do you think you look like?

I have no idea.

3) Do you prefer muffins or doughnuts?

I prefer doughnuts.

4) What’s your favourite chocolate?

Hmmm, I can’t say. I don’t eat chocolates so much and the ones I do eat, I don’t take notice of their names.

5) On a scale of 1-10, how obssessed with makeup would you say you are?

Definitely 1, I’m not even a tiny bit obsessed . I hardly ever wear makeup. I’m not against it though but I just don’t depend on it. Not being egotistical, I love how beautiful how I’m without it.

6) What’s one language you’ve always wanted to learn?

My cousins are Germans, so I would really want to learn the language for better communication and stuffs. But I would also like to learn how to speak Korean. The movies are not serving as good enough guide.

7) Who’s your favourite Disney princess and why?

Elsa from Frozen. She’s a queen though not a princess. But still my fave. She’s strong, savvy, single and independent. I like the fact that she doesn’t need a man to save and kiss her like most Disney Princess. (I’m looking at you Snow White).

6. Ask your nominees 7 questions
 Here they are

1. We’re all afraid of something, what’s one of your fears?

2. Which celebrity do you think you look like?

3. What’s one attitude or thing about people you find disturbing?

4. On a scale of 1-10, how obssessed with makeup would you say you are?

5. What’s one of the toughest choice you find yourself having to make?

6. What’s one thing about celebrities you find overrated?

7. Who’s your favourite Disney princess and why?

My nominees are: And they definitely deserve this.

Pitri C

Bayanc

The Book cover girls

My vantage point

Phoenix with a pen

That’s it for today.

Have fun,

Remain Blessed,

Nessa.